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exploringRM · 01-18-2009, 09:24 PM

I can update a little on the evolution. Part of the change in attitude in meeting people came from attending a house party recently. We didn't play with anyone as we had to leave before the fun started, but did meet several (3) couples that both the wife and I enjoyed talking too and we both felt we could move further with them given the opportunity. Since last night, email glad to meet you type emails, 2 of the 3 have expressed interest in meeting again. So lets see...time online searching profiles, emailing, chatting, subsequent meets that didn't go well..versus a party where we had fun (even without getting to the hot stuff) and 2 or 3 couples for potential future fun.

We still have some online contacts we would like to meet and these are ones were we have been tighter in choosing people that there seems to be very good attraction factor. We're also planning thee couples to meet at a local LS club, which for me takes alot of the awkwardness out of meeting at a vanilla pub.

01-18-2009, 09:24 PM	#12 (permalink)
exploringRM Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 850 Location: York, PA Status: Couple - he posts/reads Swing Lifestyle Name:hereforfunrm	Re: Tips in Seeking Friends with Benefits I can update a little on the evolution. Part of the change in attitude in meeting people came from attending a house party recently. We didn't play with anyone as we had to leave before the fun started, but did meet several (3) couples that both the wife and I enjoyed talking too and we both felt we could move further with them given the opportunity. Since last night, email glad to meet you type emails, 2 of the 3 have expressed interest in meeting again. So lets see...time online searching profiles, emailing, chatting, subsequent meets that didn't go well..versus a party where we had fun (even without getting to the hot stuff) and 2 or 3 couples for potential future fun. We still have some online contacts we would like to meet and these are ones were we have been tighter in choosing people that there seems to be very good attraction factor. We're also planning thee couples to meet at a local LS club, which for me takes alot of the awkwardness out of meeting at a vanilla pub.