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The jealousy issue is the one that has the potential to cause the most concern here. that is something that will need to be addressed before moving forward regardless of what sexual techniques anyone brings to the table.

The first question I ask people when there are jealousy issues is does that person have a valid reason to be jealous or concerned? Do either of you have a history of infidelity or are either one of you dissatisfied at home and are looking at swinging as way to pursue what you are not getting at home or is this a first step towards possibly looking for someone else as a replacement?

If the answer to any of those is yes then there is a valid concern there and those issues will need to be addressed and taken care of before you give any thought to swinging at all.

If the answers to all of those questions is no and there is no rational reason whatsoever for someone to be concerned then you just need to be understanding and compassionate and move at a pace that is comfortable for everyone and see where things go. If you move forward at very slow baby steps and stop the moment someone feels uncomfortable then it is something that can be worked on and alliviated over time.