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Originally Posted by westcan  And although she has a very giving and loving personality generally, in bed she prefers to let the man do all the work and be somewhat aggressive while she prefers to be laid back and passive. Would this be disappointing to other men? |
I'm not a man, so I can't really address this, but from reading other threads it seems to me that most men in swinging aren't going to do "all the work." Your wife should be aware that men as well as women can have nerves, or drink a bit much, or be tired, and that can show up in a lack of or slow to appear erection.
You may not even get to this point, but if you do decide to full swap, your wife may find that laying back and being passive will result in a complete lack of fun for both parties. She should be ready to fondle, stroke and compliment!
Finally, at least in my (admitted limited) experience, most men in swinging won't be "aggressive" in any way, because they are very aware that they are having sex with a brand new partner, and someone else's wife to boot! They will ask permission, they will proceed gently, and they will look for cues from her. Now, you might mean "take charge" rather than literally be aggressive, but again, your wife should be ready to give verbal and physical cues that let the guy know he's doing good stuff! She might not need to stick his dick down her throat, but she should be encouraging and responsive, maybe more so than with you, since you know her cues and the new man won't.