The rest of the issue aside with the husband, the experience with this "brian kinney" stud, (for those who don't watch Queer As Folk, he's the hottie that EVERYONE wants) the night would have ended the minute he whipped off the condom and wanted to penetrate. No condom? No way! I can understand completely the situation to her became very hot as he was in a "master" role. The rape role playing thing I've heard can be a big turn on for some.
Now, if I'd been her husband in that situation watching my wife degrade herself by going after some man and BEGGING (how pathetic btw) for him to come back, I would have serious issues with our marriage and we would be so outta there in about five seconds.
Swinging is so much about mutual feelings about whom we play with for me as well as for my husband. There are ground rules that should of course be discussed way before any sex with others and if something new arises during play then there should be a signal of some sort or a brief time out huddle.
And your husband it seems was only trying to step in because he cares about you. I personally don't think he should have been told of for that. This makes me wonder how airtight your marriage is.
Just my opinions and thoughts.
Tigress xx
