[OhioCouple]

Consider this for a moment.

Years ago I worked with a woman in which her and her husband were into some pretty heavy BDSM. Also the second swing experience we had had all the makings of seeing how far we would be willing to go and we met them at a swingers club.

Before we ever started swinging, one of the reasons that I investigated it so throughly is that I thought perhaps that may be part of what swinging was about. I then learned there are many different types of swingers. Role playing and bondage is just one area that is involved in swinging for some.

Perhaps this gal was awakened to something she really enjoyed. There is nothing wrong with that. Just not my cup of tea, but to each his own. The simple fact of the matter is that she totally disrespected her husband. That is where the problem lies for me. People can do what ever they want when they turn down the lights and I don't frown upon that as long as all are consentual. In this case, the husband was far from it. That should have been enough to call it a night, right then and there, go home and discuss the situation. Not go ahead and do what you wanted, because you wanted to.

Also, I would like to point out that it is not unusual to get a first time poster that posts as "Unregistered". It happens quite often when people are using the board for the first time and has even happened where it will show a screen name of a regular member, but show their status as unregistered if they forget to log in. I have seen many times where an unregistered poster will come back in and answer their own thread with a screen name. (If I am not mistaken, you cannot respond to your thread if you don't register and create a screen name, but you can start a new one.)

There is no telling if the original poster was sincere, but the fact lies that she may have been and really wanted advice. I think the post should be treated with the favortism in the respect that it was sincere (innocent, until proven guilty). If it is indeed a troll, then they'll be back to stir up trouble, right in this very thread and you'll recognize it right away. They won't be able to refrain from doing so.

Lori