 Re: Doubts and More!!!
You've only been together 6 months!
you feel that if you are going to do this it has to before kids are in the picture.
What's the rush? Is she already pregnant?
Take some time and really solidify your relationship. The more solid the foundation is the less likely you will be one of those couples who are torn apart by swinging. And if either of you is not feeling that it is something they want to do at this time, then you shouldn't do it. She has the right attitude. Focus on you as a couple right now. Just because she was thinking about it before with another guy doesn't mean that she wants to do it with you. That was a different relationship and from the sounds of it one where she was not as into the guy she was with (or she'd still be with him!?).
Focus on your relationship together, grow it, build it, and make sure you have a strong foundation. You can have a threesome anytime and whether or not kids are in the picture later, if you both want to do it, it's not going to be an issue.
If there are doubts/reservations then you probably shouldn't do it...
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