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Originally Posted by Jobarchuck How do you know if you are part of the people that will enjoy it or get destroyed by it?
Having an ex involved is that a good or bad idea knowing the ex was only one for sex and no love was ever involved?
What limits should we fix to keep our relationship ours? (For example no kissing, etc...) |
Only you know if you are part of couple who will enjoy it or get destroyed by it. If one half of a couple doesn't want to - destruction. If both willingly go at it - success (maybe).
An ex or friend or co-worker is usually considered a very bad idea. For alot of reasons.
Limits? You need to talk about this. First rule/limit No Means No. Anytime anywhere. To keep your relationship yours? You are thinking about letting some guy fuck your wife and you are worried about kissing to keep the relationship yours or idea to that affect? And the kissing rule among newbies is a rule they seem to bring up and the first one they throw away. Physically you are sharing at some level your wife and you with others all the time. Mentally - the relationship is all yours, if no one comes between that, you will always do well.