I agree with everyone else here. Swinging in separate rooms is not the answer. Talking and more talking is the answer. And I agree with OhioCouple, stop swinging until you work this out.
At the very least you need a signal to let your husband know you're okay with what's going on and you like it. Otherwise I can see where he'd get concerned. If anything like that ever happened to me, I think the guy would be going to the hospital thanks to my husband.
You two have some serious conversations ahead. Please take the time to talk and to work this all out before your next swinging encounter.
Best of luck.
DragonsLair
He is T. I am A.
