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This is our first post while lurking here for a while. We popped our swinging cherry last night. We picked a guy from one of the online sites. The guy was a gentleman. After few exchanges of emails, we set up a face-to-face meeting with all involved at a restaurant. We had a nice conversation during dinner involving swinging as well as non-swinging. I (the husband) checked with the wife about taking it further. She felt comfortable in proceeding.

The other guy was extremely well hung. After breaking the ice, I offered the host to take over the real proceedings. He went in her in missionary position. After a little while she felt uncomfortable with pain and asked the host to stop. I took over for a while from this while the host watched. We switched again. This time I suggested she straddle him in cowgirl position so that she can control the pace and thrust. This seemed to work little better as they went on for little longer. All of a sudden she said she is done and unmounted him. We both talked to her to see if there was any problem and wanted it any other way. She simply said no and said he is too big for her to enjoy and was totally tuned out of the proceeding. We stopped there and talked little bit about swinging and sex. It was all mature and respectful talk. We got dressed and left the hotel.

While driving back, I reassured her about me loving her even more and talked about the proceedings. Neither of us felt weired out, guilty or jealous. I guess our 26 years of marraige and love stood rock solid. She said it was hurting her no matter how she tried to take him. Also there were couple of hygene issues that distracted her at the outset. The guy was oozing precum at the outset and she did not like it. Her first experience did not go as well as we had hoped. She is not sure to try it again. I am fine with it. The host was a real gentleman and very understanding.