I have to admit, I'm somewhat speechless after reading this one. I'm pretty sure that if something like this happened to me and my wife, it would be the end of our swinging. Bottom line, swinging for us is about making each other happy, and doing it together. If she were to act that way to me, the respect would be gone, as would the trust. Quite honestly, if someone were to treat my wife like that, I'm afraid I would have done more than 'step in'. I'll admit I'm a bit provincial in my attitude regarding my wife, but there is NO WAY I could have stood by and had someone treat her that way, not unless we had discussed it beforehand and it was all part of the 'experience'. I'm not sure why this post disturbs me so much, and I apologize for my vitriolic response if it offends anyone.
Allen&Tami |