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Old 01-11-2009, 12:24 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Default Re: Tips in Seeking Friends with Benefits

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Originally Posted by exploringRM View Post
A follow up to my own post

We're not wallflowers and do have fun on the dance floor and will talk to people, but it just seems difficult to break into the groups that already exist. We're comfortable with talking to another couple that is sitting by themselves, but feel intrusive trying to break into a group. I guess it's just a slow process.
It is a slow process but one well worth the effort. I'd suggest keep going to the M&G/social/club and letting people get to know you. The more they see your face, the more comfortable they will become with you and before you know it, you'll be the ones hopefully inviting new people into the group.

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