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Originally Posted by bbarnsworth  Gentle, polite sarcasm:
Sex can only be rated on a linear scale. Either someone is better than someone else or worse. Different is a given, therefore that can not be evaluated. If you deviate from the line of good vs. bad, nobody will understand you. 
Seriously, sex is like flowers in a flower shop. If you like daisies, great. Some like roses. Others like Carnations, etc. Anybody who likes any one of these flowers is not going to rate the other flowers as better or worse than a given pick. All flowers have value. Some are more fun on some days than others.
I've had sex with a number of women in my life. Some of them I miss, and wish I could have sex with them again. None of them make me enjoy sex with my wife less, nor could they replace my wife. Similarly, no matter how good the sex with my wife is, it doesn't change the fact that I enjoyed sex with these other women and I miss some of them. |
Very well said.
As far as advice goes there is an old military saying that says if you start to fight this war using using the last wars tactics you are going to get your ass kicked and that applies here as well I believe. We often go into bed using the tactics and techniques that worked on the last person and those things just do not apply anymore because each person is completely different in what they like. You hit the reset button every time you leave the house.
You really don't get anywhere asking a third party what will work on another person. You have to find out from the source.