A follow up to my own post
We went to a meet & greet last night, a local Swing Lifestyle Group had an event at an off-premise club. We had very briefly met the moderator of the group at another event, and we were invited to join the Swing Lifestyle Group. We had a good time, but we did not know anyone there, but most of the people there: 1) Knew many others 2) Came with or planned to meet other couples there. We're not wallflowers and do have fun on the dance floor and will talk to people, but it just seems difficult to break into the groups that already exist. We're comfortable with talking to another couple that is sitting by themselves, but feel intrusive trying to break into a group. I guess it's just a slow process.