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Originally Posted by JustAskJulie  It's possible that because you have now taken the initiative that he may be now rethinking things. Before it was HIS fantasy, now it might actually be yours. And if it is YOUR fantasy as well, then he might not be so much in control of things and has more of a risk of losing you (in his mind) to another guy. |
That's why the act of swinging isn't about sex. Men nautrally don't compete without thinking about results. They can't have a great time from the hell of it. Guys think their women will possibly fantasize about the man; or lord help him the guy is BIGGER! and BETTER! Yikes! Swinging is about mental exploration, sex happens to be the backdrop. For me its the twist in the stomach, the unbeliveible sites and sounds of the act that's great. Its not about sex.