The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Single Men: Do you prefer the husband just watch, or join in for a MFM?

screaminggood · 01-08-2009, 02:32 PM

Thanks for the feedback. In reference to Iapr and LikeMinds, you have a valid question.

In one case, I could understand why he felt that the guy might prefer to not have another man there because that particular single male was a "should have been a porn star" type of a guy. He really could make movies with both size and his take charge attitude. And before anyone gets defensive for my husband and wants to get mad at the single guy for his attitude, you need to understand that I absolutely love being with assertive playmates. My husband of course knows that, so he did sit back and get one heck of a show that night.

I do agree that we're doing the selecting so he should be less concerned about what the single guy wants, and more about what he/we want. He's made references about enjoying the view so I know he really does like to watch, but we've also talked about trying dp when we find the right guy...so he can't be completely against a MFM?

01-08-2009, 02:32 PM	#11 (permalink)
screaminggood Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 847 Location: Dallas TX Status: couple	Re: Question for Single Men Thanks for the feedback. In reference to Iapr and LikeMinds, you have a valid question. In one case, I could understand why he felt that the guy might prefer to not have another man there because that particular single male was a "should have been a porn star" type of a guy. He really could make movies with both size and his take charge attitude. And before anyone gets defensive for my husband and wants to get mad at the single guy for his attitude, you need to understand that I absolutely love being with assertive playmates. My husband of course knows that, so he did sit back and get one heck of a show that night. I do agree that we're doing the selecting so he should be less concerned about what the single guy wants, and more about what he/we want. He's made references about enjoying the view so I know he really does like to watch, but we've also talked about trying dp when we find the right guy...so he can't be completely against a MFM?