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***JustAskJulie*** · 01-08-2009, 02:19 PM

It's possible that because you have now taken the initiative that he may be now rethinking things. Before it was HIS fantasy, now it might actually be yours. And if it is YOUR fantasy as well, then he might not be so much in control of things and has more of a risk of losing you (in his mind) to another guy.

01-08-2009, 02:19 PM	#7 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,293 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: Boyfriend having doubts It's possible that because you have now taken the initiative that he may be now rethinking things. Before it was HIS fantasy, now it might actually be yours. And if it is YOUR fantasy as well, then he might not be so much in control of things and has more of a risk of losing you (in his mind) to another guy.