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Originally Posted by babycole  Just an update, to maybe get this thread back on track????
After talking to my hubby more about this, he doesn't want me to completely write this guy off. We are still just gonna take this in baby steps. And it may just end up being that we can only be friends with this guy with no sexual interactions involved (which is just fine by me). His reasoning is because even though we are swingers who can seperate sex from feelings, he's worried that I won't be able to seperate it where this guy is concerned and that maybe that might not be a good thing. So for now, he wants to just become more involved in the friendship that I have with this guy and to kind of re-establish the friendship that he once had with this guy. Through our conversations, after having him read all the posts on here, I have come to realize that it's not an insecurity about our relationship, just a hesitancy on this situation. So, babysteps it is for us to see where it will take us. And in the meantime, I'll just be extra careful to not push anything, just to let it evolve as it may.
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Thanks for the update. I have to wonder.... when it comes to poly the whole point is that you aren't seperating sex from love... the idea that you can love more than one person. It sounds to me like maybe you guys are still on different pages. You want to be open to love others beyond your husband, he just wants you to love him.