[realcplub2]

First Welcome... Second Please register..

Now to the cusp of the posting..

Its completely normal to second guess, and re think the idea of bringing a fantasy to reality.. BUT.. The issues that you give arent really stumbling blocks if you are careful, and proceed with the same caution you would when meeting new people.

I cant speak to the intimate side of your shared fantasy, BUT, While the concept of introducing a gentleman to you while naked lying prone on a bed, MIGHT be hot.. the reality is, you meet in public, and if the VIBE isnt right, shake hands and say sorry this isnt in the cards for this evening.

Lets face a few simple facts, this INTERVIEW process can be as detailed or simple as YOU both want it to be.. email back and foth, talk on the phone, and then decide to meet, make it clear NOTHING says you are going to do ANYTHING the first evening.. then, set up a simple "date", and see how that goes..

As far as the cooling off, and then bring it back up, its normal.. The bigger question is, one you both have to answer for yourselves..

"life is just a fantasy, can you live this fantasy life"

Sometimes reality, intrudes, and the fantasy.. was way hotter than the reality is..