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Let me put on my scientist hat.
MFM poly unlike FMF poly is rarely stable long term. I could give the long biological/psychological explanation I am wont to do at times here, but just trust me on this one. The male mind just isn't wired for that sort of thing. I'm sure in unusual circumstances it can work, and I have known it to work where the men are also bisexual, but thats about it.
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Sorry, I'm not inclined to just "trust" you on this one either.
Being one in a marriage and an outside relationship, i.e., pretty much an MFM/V arrangement, and being a woman, I'd like to know why my arrangement is statistically less stable than if my spouse got himself a girlfriend resulting in a FMF arrangement. A "trust me" from Chicup doesn't exactly inspire confidence that your statement is biologically/scientifically/statistically valid, but it does annoy this particular woman.
