Re: On the cusp...
Babycole,
Lots of good and thoughtful posts before me, so I won't repeat any of it. Severing your ties to this man is a good idea for many reasons. He is in an emotionally confusing position right now with the seperation from his wife. So you can not depend on him being emotionally honest with you. You also don't want to get sucked into the drama of the potential divorce. So, would be better to step away.
Having said that, because you are open to a poly relationship, if it is something that you and your husband enter into together, then the potential for success will go up.
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