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Chicup · 01-06-2009, 10:24 PM

Let me put on my scientist hat.

MFM poly unlike FMF poly is rarely stable long term. I could give the long biological/psychological explanation I am wont to do at times here, but just trust me on this one. The male mind just isn't wired for that sort of thing. I'm sure in unusual circumstances it can work, and I have known it to work where the men are also bisexual, but thats about it.

My personal recommendation, is to drop it completely. The fact that your husband may be willing to try this for you, doesn't mean that is what he wants or will be happy with. Let the other man go find his own way and don't let your own desires jeopardize your marriage unless you are willing to risk your marriage for it.

01-06-2009, 10:24 PM	#12 (permalink)
Chicup Not a potential *** Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 4,093 Location: Under the bed Status: Tired	Re: On the cusp... Let me put on my scientist hat. MFM poly unlike FMF poly is rarely stable long term. I could give the long biological/psychological explanation I am wont to do at times here, but just trust me on this one. The male mind just isn't wired for that sort of thing. I'm sure in unusual circumstances it can work, and I have known it to work where the men are also bisexual, but thats about it. My personal recommendation, is to drop it completely. The fact that your husband may be willing to try this for you, doesn't mean that is what he wants or will be happy with. Let the other man go find his own way and don't let your own desires jeopardize your marriage unless you are willing to risk your marriage for it.