[jjtrindc]

I think the advice thus far is pretty good. As we all know, the fantasy can be great...but as reality sets in the brain takes over. We'll never forget entering a club for the first time or the final few minutes as we drove into Desire...our hearts were pounding. Best thing is to keep the conversation going but in a non-pushy way. Another option is to simply meet another man for coffee or a drink but be honest with him (and yourselves) about it being just a meet and greet and not for sex. That way there is no pressure and you can both figure out if this is really for you.