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Old 01-06-2009, 07:16 PM   #2 (permalink)
HardInHardout
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Join Date: Jan 2009
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Location: Illinois
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Swing Lifestyle Name:Hardinhardout

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Default Re: Boyfriend having doubts

It sounds like his turnon is the fantasy of the act more then the actually experience. Its a form of control. By just talking about it he control the flow of the fantasy. If he wants a guy to sex you a certain why he can just think it. However, in real life he has concerns he may not be able to control what happens. It sounds like he enjoy mental swinging.
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