Re: How long to wait after leaving message before making other plans?
While frustrating, it is a nice problem to have. I'd have done what you ended up doing: waiting a couple days for Couple 1 to respond before scratching them and setting plans with Couple 2. In the event that neither worked out, we'd simply tell them we'd hope to run into them at the next club/party we planned to attend. It's just simpler that way, especially when people tend to flake out so much.
Hope you end up getting to meet at least one of these couples, and that it goes well.
=)
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