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exploringRM · 01-06-2009, 06:26 PM

I've been reading many threads in the archives on find friends in the lifestyle where you do more than just interact in the bedroom. My wife and I realize that will be difficult , but are willing to take it slow, and perhaps be choosy.

I've not seen it discussed, but it made me think of what are we looking for in other peoples profiles that make us think that we may have something in common. Same age? Not far away? Similar place in life (kids, careers, income..not trying to be snobby on the income aspect, but if we like to take a weekend away, or hit a nice restaurant it would be nice it the other couple has the means to do the same thing)? Similar interests? For those that have had success in finding friends with benefits did you find people similar to you or people that you would have never thought you'd be friends based on the profile.

01-06-2009, 06:26 PM	#1 (permalink)
exploringRM Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 850 Location: York, PA Status: Couple - he posts/reads Swing Lifestyle Name:hereforfunrm	Tips in Seeking Friends with Benefits I've been reading many threads in the archives on find friends in the lifestyle where you do more than just interact in the bedroom. My wife and I realize that will be difficult , but are willing to take it slow, and perhaps be choosy. I've not seen it discussed, but it made me think of what are we looking for in other peoples profiles that make us think that we may have something in common. Same age? Not far away? Similar place in life (kids, careers, income..not trying to be snobby on the income aspect, but if we like to take a weekend away, or hit a nice restaurant it would be nice it the other couple has the means to do the same thing)? Similar interests? For those that have had success in finding friends with benefits did you find people similar to you or people that you would have never thought you'd be friends based on the profile.