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fun4t&c · 01-06-2009, 02:26 AM

Well, there's one glaring option you haven't listed.... You know what it is, but I think you might be getting caught up in what YOU want and, like me, you tend to figure out how to make that work for your partner.

Hint: The option your hubby wants to hear is that you'll gladly step away from the friend if that's what needs to happen. If you're not even offering that as an option, no wonder your hubby has concerns.

You guys seem pretty close. I hope it all fits together nicely. If you guys can pull it off and have it be genuinely good for all 3 parties, you'll have accomplished something very rare. Best of luck, no matter which way you guys go.

01-06-2009, 02:26 AM	#2 (permalink)
fun4t&c Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 32 Location: CA Status: couple	Re: On the cusp... Well, there's one glaring option you haven't listed.... You know what it is, but I think you might be getting caught up in what YOU want and, like me, you tend to figure out how to make that work for your partner. Hint: The option your hubby wants to hear is that you'll gladly step away from the friend if that's what needs to happen. If you're not even offering that as an option, no wonder your hubby has concerns. You guys seem pretty close. I hope it all fits together nicely. If you guys can pull it off and have it be genuinely good for all 3 parties, you'll have accomplished something very rare. Best of luck, no matter which way you guys go.