[JustAskJulie]

I am one of those women who would love to see my man with another man. However, you won't see an ad from us saying "wife seeking man for husband" because it's not something that my husband wants to do at this point.

I have to agree with IvoryTowers. F/F is practically vanilla these days and is as common in the vanilla world as it is in the swinging world. It's common and accepted, therefore no one thinks twice. In swinging, you are more likely to get a sideways look if you say that the female is straight. For that matter, you are as likely to get a sideways look if the female is straight as you are if the male admits he is bi... maybe more so.