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Originally Posted by bbarnsworth  I wonder if the lifestyle attracts more or less flaky people than the average in society? |
I'd venture to say that like a lot of things, it's probably about the same with vanillas and swingers.
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Flakiness by itself isn't bad. There are personality types out there who are the life of the party, who don't think about much more than the here and now in any particular serious way, and live life moment to moment when not focused on work, etc. These people are often labeled as "flaky" and there's really nothing bad about them. They're just fun loving people.
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To a point, I agree. There is something to be said for living in the moment, but there's also something to be said for common courtesy. If you make plans with someone, then KEEP them. If something genuinely comes up, then let the folks with whom you have plans the courtesy of a phone call or text as soon as you know your plans have changed. (Can you tell this is a pet peeve of mine?)
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My wife isn't holding her breath over this guy. If it works out, it works out. Personally, I think she's going to have a great time having sex with him if it works out. I think he'll be a lot of fun in bed. It's just getting there that might be the problem  |
Kudos on maintaining a good attitude about the situation. Hope it works out!
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