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My Next 65 · 01-05-2009, 04:13 PM

Thank you Ivory Towers. Even though I miss-read the poll, I received an answer that addressed my thread. First let me say my wife passed away last year. The Swingers Board gives me a way to occupy my sexual thoughts and keeps the fire down below going by interacting on sexual thoughts that stimulate. What is a "manly" man is a hard question for me to expand on. I guess it means to me that her hot sexual desire is to have sex with a male who wants to "give her" (key words) the total masculinity she so wants in her base desires My sexuallity is served best by seeing a woman as a submissive creature wanting to be taken. To have seen the look on her face, her eyes rolling back in her head and moans of pleasure while being 'done' by another man sends signals that tell me she is overcome by a desires to totally submit to a man who feeds her wantonness. He is most stimulated by seeing her response to what he is giving her. Thus she is the receiver, he the giver. Guess my thoughts are that a guy who has sex with another guy while she watches makes him less masculine, in her eyes, and not as capable of fulfilling her wantonness for a man as a husband who would do other men.
It is informative that your wife would think that if one man is hot naked, then him having sex with another guy is 2x as hot. I am bi-sexual. Meaning I am uninhibited enough to see the dick as a sexual object of interest and without a thought of same gender or having a desire for temporary emotional involvement as in kissing that I would have with a female, something to play with and enjoy orally in the same way a woman does. It seems "straight" guys are in the majority in feeling homophobic. I do not feel that way but must admit I have always thought females would share the same idea. I don't know if the thoughts of Mrs. Ivory Tower are shared in the common or one of just a few.
Perhaps a thread would answer that question. Would you care to ask? I would like to know but homophobia seems to be prevalant and replies likely to reject the question and flame the writter. I have mentioned m/m oral sex before (with another ID name) and the replies intimidated me so much I changed my ID name . Or perhaps I have missed such a thread in the archives that someone can point out.

01-05-2009, 04:13 PM	#7 (permalink)
My Next 65 Active Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 16 Location: morris Ill Status: widower Swing Lifestyle Name:My next 65	Re: Male for husband ? Thank you Ivory Towers. Even though I miss-read the poll, I received an answer that addressed my thread. First let me say my wife passed away last year. The Swingers Board gives me a way to occupy my sexual thoughts and keeps the fire down below going by interacting on sexual thoughts that stimulate. What is a "manly" man is a hard question for me to expand on. I guess it means to me that her hot sexual desire is to have sex with a male who wants to "give her" (key words) the total masculinity she so wants in her base desires My sexuallity is served best by seeing a woman as a submissive creature wanting to be taken. To have seen the look on her face, her eyes rolling back in her head and moans of pleasure while being 'done' by another man sends signals that tell me she is overcome by a desires to totally submit to a man who feeds her wantonness. He is most stimulated by seeing her response to what he is giving her. Thus she is the receiver, he the giver. Guess my thoughts are that a guy who has sex with another guy while she watches makes him less masculine, in her eyes, and not as capable of fulfilling her wantonness for a man as a husband who would do other men. It is informative that your wife would think that if one man is hot naked, then him having sex with another guy is 2x as hot. I am bi-sexual. Meaning I am uninhibited enough to see the dick as a sexual object of interest and without a thought of same gender or having a desire for temporary emotional involvement as in kissing that I would have with a female, something to play with and enjoy orally in the same way a woman does. It seems "straight" guys are in the majority in feeling homophobic. I do not feel that way but must admit I have always thought females would share the same idea. I don't know if the thoughts of Mrs. Ivory Tower are shared in the common or one of just a few. Perhaps a thread would answer that question. Would you care to ask? I would like to know but homophobia seems to be prevalant and replies likely to reject the question and flame the writter. I have mentioned m/m oral sex before (with another ID name) and the replies intimidated me so much I changed my ID name . Or perhaps I have missed such a thread in the archives that someone can point out.