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Originally Posted by sweet_tna  I seem to attract friends who are a bit flaky when it comes to making plans |
I wonder if the lifestyle attracts more or less flaky people than the average in society?
At any rate, in trying to assuage my wife's concerns of this single male we're trying to set things up with (who keeps dropping the communication ball) I told her not to fret too much about the flakiness. "Do not attribute to rudeness/stupidity/etc. that which can be attributed to innocent flakiness"
Flakiness by itself isn't bad. There are personality types out there who are the life of the party, who don't think about much more than the here and now in any particular serious way, and live life moment to moment when not focused on work, etc. These people are often labeled as "flaky" and there's really nothing bad about them. They're just fun loving people.
My wife isn't holding her breath over this guy. If it works out, it works out. Personally, I think she's going to have a great time having sex with him if it works out. I think he'll be a lot of fun in bed. It's just getting there that might be the problem
We were hopeful that this guy might be a regular. He's local to us, which makes setting up play time easy. But, he probably won't work out as a regular. C'est la vie. It if happens, it'll still be fun.