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LikeMinds321 · 01-04-2009, 11:24 AM

Like lizandtom, I wouldn't recommend suggesting a meet with both couples at the same time. Too many things can go wrong and it will pressure you to give equal attention to both couples - when you may not want to because you find that you're only clicking with one couple, even though both are interested in you. Someone can feel left out. Finding a 4-way match with another couple is hard enough, finding three couples (a 6-way) the odds are even slimmer.

Please let us know how things turn out.

LM

01-04-2009, 11:24 AM	#9 (permalink)
LikeMinds321 I'll think about it Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 10,099 Location: With Wild Things Status: Married Female	Re: How long to wait after leaving message before making other plans? Like lizandtom, I wouldn't recommend suggesting a meet with both couples at the same time. Too many things can go wrong and it will pressure you to give equal attention to both couples - when you may not want to because you find that you're only clicking with one couple, even though both are interested in you. Someone can feel left out. Finding a 4-way match with another couple is hard enough, finding three couples (a 6-way) the odds are even slimmer. Please let us know how things turn out. LM