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Originally Posted by Nitati  I'm poly... the hubby is not. But he's willing to share, lol  Still, the "poly" in me is currently inactive and will likely stay that way for a good long while. Being a wife & mom, and trying to start/maintain new relationships is too mentally & emotionally draining. Plus, I have no intention of living in a menage or commune as I am not the type that believes it's okay to blend families & involve children in something just so the adults can be happy. Perhaps that has something to do with living in a small town... or that we're already a multicultural family? Either way, I don't want to make life any harder on my little ones... though please understand that I'm not by any means knockin' people who do live an active poly life in front of their children & community. It's just not my personal choice to cause mine any undue suffering b/c other people are judgemental & cruel. |
Nitati, I dont understand. I want to though
You say you are poly. By that, do you mean you have feelings of love for playmates. But would prefer to be discrete about everything, now that you have family ?
Could you explain more ?