We had a seemingly decent guy we've actually met in person (but never played with) send us a msg on Swing Lifestyle from a couple's profile telling us it's him & asking when we want to hook up. No pics on that profile, of course... plus when we met him, he introduced the guy he was with as his sister.... oops! She was definitely a girl upon speaking, but neither looked nor dressed like one (which, there's nothing wrong with that) but it definitely scratched him off the "possibles" list when they both went into a private room together with a group of 3 other girls.... We're no prudes, but
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