Yeah, when i first asked them, they were almost excited, but as time came closer they started to seem to lose nerve when they realized that it was probably going to happen, which sucks because having people like them whom i trust enough to really be comfortable with, would have been great...
But I do think it would be good to have some kind of bond going before anything...
And oh yeah! Me and my partner have talked a lot before we even considered asking those friends, and so I know exactly what kinds of guys she's interested in, which does make things that much more interesting...
Anyways thanks for the reply! Happy New Years!
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Originally Posted by TravlParty  Definitely not a friend. You saw already how awkward it made them feel.
We pick single males based on their knowledge of the lifestyle and how respectful they are of our relationship. There are many men available who are likable and understand what you're looking for.
If you feel the need to form a friendship beforehand, then do so. It's really quite simple. Look through the ads on whatever site you belong to and pick a few to meet in person before you involve your wife. Do find out what type of man she's interested in. You may be surprised that her fantasy man is nothing like you imagined.
You'll be able to get a feel for whether you're comfortable introducing them. If they won't meet with you first, then that throws the respect out the window.
Good luck! |