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Old 01-01-2009, 05:15 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Default Re: How To "NOT" Get Started?

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Originally Posted by realcplub2 View Post
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My friend this is NOT the way to pursue this lifestyle. Having a thirst to TRY, all that you wish, is fine, HOWEVER, Very few of the people in the lifestyle really consider the path you are taking, Anything but CHEATING

The best course of action is to reverse course and go TALK TO YOUR WIFE

Well put. If this is the avenue you wish to pursue, you either need to involve your wife and have her full permission, determine why your sex life has fizzled, or be truly single and explore what you want to explore with noone to answer to.

If you are committed to your marriage, then prove that commitment by working out the issues you both face together, and see where that takes you. Only then will you know where you want to go from there.
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