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Originally Posted by Unregistered  How does someone get started in an alternative sexual lifestyle? Here's the bottom line. I'm married but my sex-life has completely fizzled. So I'm setting out on my own, without my wife knowing. I want to know how I can get involved with things like swinging, exhibitionism, voyeurism, mutual masterbation, etc. There's so much I've never tried and I'm afraid I'll never get to. |
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My friend this is
NOT the way to pursue this lifestyle. Having a thirst to TRY, all that you wish, is fine, HOWEVER, Very few of the people in the lifestyle really consider the path you are taking, Anything but
CHEATING
The best course of action is to reverse course and go
TALK TO YOUR WIFE
A fizzling sex life is easly repaired, spice up what you already have.. and the best way to do that is by TALKING it THRU.. If she came to you and said she wanted to use your car tomorrow, but failed to tell you the check engine light keeps coming on you would be pissed right?
Same thing applies here, Discussing the problem, is the best way to Start fixing it..
If its lack of originality, changing the usual ways you go about it is a start..
Next question, when you and she were dating, did you perpare yourself for a night out, where SEX might be in the cards, the same as you do when you want it now? Shower, Shave, colonge, aftershave, Fingernails trimmed..?
Its like this, you can't really expect enthusiasim, if the whole build up to a night of passionate sex, is taking off sweat/sleep pants and presenting a hard cock..
We all know FLANNEL is the biggest buzz kill there is.. Granny panties, and a floor length flannel nightgown...
SHUDDER.. will never replace silk and lace.. However, remember passion is a TWO WAY STREET..
The line from Mrs Doubtfire comes to mind, where Miranda and Mrs Doubtfire are in the kitchen.. and Robin Williams uses the line.. " Miles' foreplay was to say, Brace your self Effie"
Same thing applies here.. The biggest Sex organ in both Male and Females is a 7 to 10 pound Lump of Fatty Tissue...
The Brain.. Inspire that, and there are no limits to where things can go..