Re: How To "NOT" Get Started?
Susan here-- Cheating is the most harmful form of sexual exploration. I have never seen it do anything but extreme damage. Do the decent thing, divorce her and then move forward and I'm not interested in all the reasons you can't. If those reasons are that important, you just don't have this sexual exploration. After all, there are a million things you can have in this life and a million things you cannot.
Also, have you exhausted everything ? I doubt it. Marriage counseling and at least a visit to a primary physician if she's lost all interest are great starting points.
Movies that will help you see this: Unfaithful, Eyes Wide Shut, One From the Heart and many others.
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