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TravlParty · 01-01-2009, 08:26 AM

Definitely not a friend. You saw already how awkward it made them feel.

We pick single males based on their knowledge of the lifestyle and how respectful they are of our relationship. There are many men available who are likable and understand what you're looking for.

If you feel the need to form a friendship beforehand, then do so. It's really quite simple. Look through the ads on whatever site you belong to and pick a few to meet in person before you involve your wife. Do find out what type of man she's interested in. You may be surprised that her fantasy man is nothing like you imagined.

You'll be able to get a feel for whether you're comfortable introducing them. If they won't meet with you first, then that throws the respect out the window.

Good luck!

01-01-2009, 08:26 AM	#3 (permalink)
TravlParty Where's the party? Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 172 Location: Paradise Status: Couple	Re: MFM? ...Well you see Definitely not a friend. You saw already how awkward it made them feel. We pick single males based on their knowledge of the lifestyle and how respectful they are of our relationship. There are many men available who are likable and understand what you're looking for. If you feel the need to form a friendship beforehand, then do so. It's really quite simple. Look through the ads on whatever site you belong to and pick a few to meet in person before you involve your wife. Do find out what type of man she's interested in. You may be surprised that her fantasy man is nothing like you imagined. You'll be able to get a feel for whether you're comfortable introducing them. If they won't meet with you first, then that throws the respect out the window. Good luck!