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Originally Posted by fun4t&c 
So, thanks for the genuine feedback! I wasn't sure what quality to expect on a forum like this, but I'm very pleasantly surprised.
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to the Board.
You'll find there is a plethora of information here and the people, for the most part, are extremely helpful, understanding and straight forward in their advice.
For what it's worth, you are not the first husband who has came here with this question.
Swinging is NOT for everyone. In fact, it's not for most people. Unless it's something that you and your wife BOTH want to try, it will never work.
One can NEVER assume or guess when it comes to any aspect of swinging where our spouses/SOs are concerned....you must KNOW. The only way to know is talk and talk and talk some more.
It seems as if you have planted the seed in your wife's mind...until SHE decides it's something SHE wants to explore there is nothing else you can do. Pushing her and constantly nagging her about it will only breed resentment.
I encourage you to continue to read here on the board...it may never help you bring your wife into swinging but, it definitely won't hurt in learning about swinging and the importance of total, open, honest communication, and the ability to listen, within your marriage.
Teresa