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Originally Posted by VegasLee  It sounds to me that she just might be in "Her Happy Place" but you are looking to set her up so that you can achieve your "Happy Place."
You state she does not want to be involved in anything "planned" yet you appear to be doing your best to plan this.
Rather then plan this out, sit with her, explain "your" fantasy and if she is up for it great, if not, live with it and stop trying to put her in a position that she does not desire to be in. |
That makes perfect sense. What's caused me some difficulty is that nothing ever seems to happen. I guess I was thinking that if I figured out how it would have to come together to work out best, she could just enjoy it with the idea everything is spontaneous, like she so strongly prefers. I don't know. I really thought it would be easier than it's proven to be. I know other people who get wild and have fun like that. Maybe I was hoping for too much. I certainly don't want to screw up.