 Re: Setting the Hook?
It sounds to me that she just might be in "Her Happy Place" but you are looking to set her up so that you can achieve your "Happy Place."
You state she does not want to be involved in anything "planned" yet you appear to be doing your best to plan this.
Rather then plan this out, sit with her, explain "your" fantasy and if she is up for it great, if not, live with it and stop trying to put her in a position that she does not desire to be in.
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