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Old 12-30-2008, 10:05 AM   #4 (permalink)
dnmnms
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dnmnms gives some great advice
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Because she has a really fun wild side that only comes out on short notice, it's difficult to plan anything sexual with her. It MUST be spontaneous for her and she has very narrow preferences. She only likes people who are also very physically attractive and not socially crude. She's a knockout and I just wanna see her play. I don't even care if I do anything. I just really like the idea of watching her role play as a slut for a night, because in reality, she's a good, wholesome woman, even if she LOOKS like a hot porn star.
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The crowds at those places were less physically fit and attractive than typical club crowds.
I know we each have our own preferences and please understand that I am NOT being crude in what I am trying to say....But comments like this really make us "non porn star normal people who are also good wholesome people, who look good but are not Barbies" feel a little intimidated.
Speaking as female here who is somewhat average in the looks dept, has had 3 kids and whose body could never make it into a porn movie anymore.

Not bashing you, just when we "normal" ladies are reminded of our flaws it can hurt a little. I am sure your wife is all you wrote and probably then some. I am sure you will locate those in the LS that have the same thoughts and feelings as you 2 do....They are definantly those out there who will only play with model material. I wish you luck in whatever your searching for.

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