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Old 12-29-2008, 02:22 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Default Re: How do we get past the shyness?

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Originally Posted by iapr View Post
You don't have to be real outgoing or be a social butterfly.
But, you do have to put yourself out there a bit. If you sit in a corner quietly watching and don't talk to anyone, you will probably not be successful at swinging. Having the right attitude and being somewhat social will help you immensely. We have heard from many new people who come out to events and are introduced to people, then they complain about never being able to hook up. Usually it is because they just say "nice to meet you" then go sit down somewhere and have no more interaction with whoever they just met. Just some food for thought.
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