 Re: Is she ready for the "real Deal"?
Like others have said... fantasy and reality are two different things.
Talk to her. Ask her if it is something she'd like to try. But be clear, to both her and yourself, that sharing a fantasy in no way indicates that you mean for it to happen in real life. Be gentle understanding and willing to take no for an answer. Explore the idea of taking it into reality in a no-pressure way. It should be something you both want to do or it shouldn't happen at all. Be warned that if you are too pushy she may shut down. I would.
Mrs. NotSorry
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