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warrencouple · 12-28-2008, 11:09 PM

A newb gets in an answer!

Coming from someone who brought it up to his wife about 2 months back, I would suggest discussing it with her before doing anything. My wife (and me) are completely new to this, and have yet to overcome enough to go to a club. You at least will be able to speak from experience with her (I'm presuming she already knows about your having been in the lifestyle previously?)

Let her set the pace. She may be just a "let's go to the club and have a good time, and get turned on" sort, or, she may want to jump right in and take on 5 guys at once...

But, talk with her about it, first and foremost.

I'm sure if anyone here disagrees with me, they'll pipe up...

Mr.

12-28-2008, 11:09 PM	#2 (permalink)
warrencouple Awaiting Email Confirmation Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 493 Location: NA Status: NA	Re: Is she ready for the "real Deal"? A newb gets in an answer! Coming from someone who brought it up to his wife about 2 months back, I would suggest discussing it with her before doing anything. My wife (and me) are completely new to this, and have yet to overcome enough to go to a club. You at least will be able to speak from experience with her (I'm presuming she already knows about your having been in the lifestyle previously?) Let her set the pace. She may be just a "let's go to the club and have a good time, and get turned on" sort, or, she may want to jump right in and take on 5 guys at once... But, talk with her about it, first and foremost. I'm sure if anyone here disagrees with me, they'll pipe up... Mr.