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Old 12-27-2008, 02:47 PM   #7 (permalink)
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A polyamorous relationship is one that involves more than one loving, intimate relationship at a time with the full knowledge and consent of everyone involved. That can mean that everyone is involved sexually, but it doesn't have to. A 'V' is when there are two people who are both involved with a third, but not with each other. So if it turns out that you aren't interested in having sex with a woman, then you can still have a polyamorous relationship.

I suggested you (or both of you) broach the subject with the other woman because you can't just sort of drift into a poly relationship. You can all get drunk and have sex without planning but you can't 'accidentally' create a relationship. So at some point there has to be talking!

I admire you for wanting to protect the children and that is a very serious concern, so you should proceed slowly. On the other hand, if the three of you can form a loving stable relationship it will benefit the children in many ways.

Good luck.
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