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***JustAskJulie*** · 12-26-2008, 06:29 PM

I may be wrong, as Polyamory isn't really my thing, but I'm thinking it's something you have to work into, not jump into. You are already close friends and you don't want to risk losing that friendship, but it's also apparant that you all want more than you currently have. What isn't apparent is whether or not you all want the same thing. She may just want a fling, some sexual fun and not a more involved committment. The only way to know this is to talk to her about it and open up on your end.

I do believe that when it comes to polyamory and anything where you are really involving more people in your relationship to this extent you have to be able to have as good of communication with them as you do with your husband. It might be time to start spending some more time with her, both one and one and as a threesome to see where it goes.

12-26-2008, 06:29 PM	#2 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,293 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: I kissed a girl and I liked it! Now ???'s I may be wrong, as Polyamory isn't really my thing, but I'm thinking it's something you have to work into, not jump into. You are already close friends and you don't want to risk losing that friendship, but it's also apparant that you all want more than you currently have. What isn't apparent is whether or not you all want the same thing. She may just want a fling, some sexual fun and not a more involved committment. The only way to know this is to talk to her about it and open up on your end. I do believe that when it comes to polyamory and anything where you are really involving more people in your relationship to this extent you have to be able to have as good of communication with them as you do with your husband. It might be time to start spending some more time with her, both one and one and as a threesome to see where it goes.