Being ones that are not exactly Ken and Barbie we went through some of the same feelings. We spent a lot of time talking to each other and then when we meet someone it is in an atomsphere that we are comfortable with. If there is chemistry then we take the next steps. When we decided to attend a local club it was even a bigger help in relieving the nerves. The club was fantastic because it showed the Ms. that not everyone in the lifestyle is a model and she still can turn a number of heads when she wants.
It was worth it to break past the nerves and shyness!!
