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IvoryTowers · 12-24-2008, 07:22 AM

Just go for it! The easiest way to get past the shyness is to jump in with both feet so you're so busy that you can't think!

A couple of other ideas:

Do you really know any ANY men who, when faced with the chance to have sex, would say "nope, you don't look like a 17 year old model so I'm not turned on"? I mean, just think about that!

Women have the advantage of sexy lingerie, which can cover many perceived sins. I like to wear corsets an stockings, partly because they hide my stomach and partly cause they drive the men wild.

Look at the pictures on Swing Lifestyle. REAL people swing, not just models. We come in all shapes and sizes!

Good luck. It's worth breaking past the shyness barrier.

12-24-2008, 07:22 AM	#5 (permalink)
IvoryTowers Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 303 Location: Philadelphia Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:ivorytowers	Re: How do we get past the shyness? Just go for it! The easiest way to get past the shyness is to jump in with both feet so you're so busy that you can't think! A couple of other ideas: Do you really know any ANY men who, when faced with the chance to have sex, would say "nope, you don't look like a 17 year old model so I'm not turned on"? I mean, just think about that! Women have the advantage of sexy lingerie, which can cover many perceived sins. I like to wear corsets an stockings, partly because they hide my stomach and partly cause they drive the men wild. Look at the pictures on Swing Lifestyle. REAL people swing, not just models. We come in all shapes and sizes! Good luck. It's worth breaking past the shyness barrier.