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Originally Posted by JustAskJulie  It's happened to me a few times, including the DEPO incident. But more recently it's happened due to either a lot of stress in our lives or during/following a bout of illness. For me, I find that the longer I go without it, the less I want it and I have to make a concerted effort to GET my drive BACK. In one case that meant finding some of lotion that got my juices flowing, in others it just means making an effort on my part to get things moving, even if I'm not "in the mood" beforehand. |
I agree, Julie. When we go without, whether it's just due to busy schedules, stress, illness, whatever, it's hard to kick-start it again. There have been times I just was NOT in the mood, but made the first moves anyway, because I know what always happens afterwards. The more we have it, the more I want it, and the sex drive is magically back. We've just had a 2 week dry spell, all due to illness, and I will have to put forth that effort to get it back. I'm thinking Saturday nite at the club should do it....